Friday, March 29, 2013

Stop Stuttering - How to Win the Chaotic Game of Fluency!

Stuttering and fluency. Two key components of a chaotic equation.

Stuttering. Not JUST a physical speech problem. A problem which affects ALL aspects of one's life.

One's choices, decisions, beliefs, goals, dreams, confidence, who HE/SHE IS and who he CAN BECOME... all his beliefs about himself and his ability to achieve desired goals in life are all run, shaped, controlled and lead by his stuttering mindset. If you are a person who suffers from stuttering, I am sure you would easily relate with this equation.

So, the question here is;

How can we solve this equation?

Here is how...

By understanding, practicing, playing and winning the GAME OF FLUENCY.

The game of fluency has two core components:

1) The Inner Game Of Fluency 2) The Outer Game Of Fluency

Inner game is the mental/conceptual side of the equation. This is your mindset, your beliefs, your intentions, your personality characteristics, the way you approach the problem, etc. This is your mental and conceptual skill set. This is the game you play IN you. If you don't build this strong enough no matter what "fluency techniques" you use, you will either get NO or TEMPORARY results. Self development, which is so critical and essential to win the game of fluency, comes into play at this stage of the game!

On the other hand, outer game is the specific mental and physical tools and techniques you use to take control of your speech. If your inner game is strong and well developed, your outer game will enable you to achieve your goals and get the results you want. The results will only come by playing the outer game but you can't have an effective, result-oriented outer game if you don't back it up with strong inner game. So, in other words, one doesn't work without the other.

Your game has two parts and BOTH needs to be there in order for you to win this game and reach your speaking goals. Start with the inner game and then get equipped with the outer game. If you get these two core parts of your game handled, there wouldn't be any single reason why you shouldn't make this happen and WIN the GAME OF FLUENCY.

So, the next question you might be asking to yourself is;

How can I improve my inner and outer game?

Inner game can be improved by focusing mainly on SELF DEVELOPMENT topics which are CUSTOMIZED for stuttering where the outer game can be improved by learning and practicing step by step models, proven strategies, necessary skills, effective speaking tools and techniques, etc.

When we look at the big picture, it all comes down to answering this question honestly;

Are you going to play this game to win or not to lose?

Now that you roughly understand the STRUCTURE of the game of fluency, what you need to do next is to learn the RULES of the game, get equipped with EFFECTIVE TOOLS, latest TECHNIQUES, proven STRATEGIES, step-by-step MODELS, right SYSTEMS and last but not least PRACTICE those to the fullest until you WON the game of fluency.

... And this is not far away if you can put the CHAOTIC PUZZLE OF FLUENCY GAME together and act accordingly!

CMS - Build, Deploy, and Maintain Content-Rich Websites

Web content management systems are installed to abridge and simplify the whole process of content creation. It is software or a program that automates the website submission to the search engines to gain much improved business revenue and site traffic, efficiently manages the content with a lot of ease. Some most common examples of content management systems are Joomla, WordPress, Php Web site and phpbb2.

Today, on the grounds of its commendable efficiency and simplicity, the popularity of CMS has reached to an acme where a huge number of people are using it. Besides, giving the power of easy content management to the administrator, the system ensures to save a lot of working on every single web page separately. Huge scope of functionality, addition of new dynamic categories and new module, customized to work within the system are some of the other few benefits that act as a catalyst when it comes to considering the option of buying CMS. However, before purchasing any content management system, it is important for the webmaster to understand and gauge all the essential components of the system.

The first and foremost thing to consider is the list of features. In addition to the very imperative WYSWIG editors and some sort of security parameters, your CMS should also have certain built in components:

o Deeply inquire about the granular security model. Figure out if it is role-based and can easily be integrated into your existing security model. Also, it should let right people access the right content and work with the content as per the business requirements.

o Check for all built-in navigation components as they are very useful for having easy and quick creation of horizontal and vertical menu bars, bread crumbs along with category precise menus if required.

o The software must contain all major components required for social media purposes such as blogs, personalized web pages, forums, photo galleries and web messages.

o It must carry tools that are used on companywide purposes like news release manager or a FAQs component.

o Document management is also an imperative component. Mostly, it is incorporated in the web content management system and as otherwise, you may have to deal with an entirely new set of purchase orders, licensing fees and sales agreement.

Some other additional requirements that you must check for are:

o Training and support

o WYSIWG editors

o Easy and quick page template creation along with the feature to create replica of the already existing pages and or templates

o Built-in components for the creation of feature rich user experience with images, calendars, blogs, video and audio.

o Globalization features that facilitate the conversion of entire website content into any other local language.

Book Review - Eyewitness Turkey

On planning my first trip to Turkey this past September I initially bought Turkey (Eyewitness Travel Guides). Having bought other books in the series (Egypt, India) I had a general idea of what to expect. The Eyewitness series typically offers a broad overview of a country or area, complete with a lot of pictures, some "cultural awareness" sections, and a little bit less history than I personally like. However, being as I wasn't exactly sure what I wanted to see in Istanbul, I figured it was a good place to start.

As expected, Eyewitness: Turkey provided a broad overview of the country complete with gorgeous photos and a nice regional breakdown. The book covered most if not all of the major cities and historical sites and offered a bit of background on the history of the sites themselves. In early vacation planning mode, this book seemed to work well, offering me pictures of sites that I wanted to see and suggesting various accommodations. However, once I had decided that I wanted to go to Ephesus, the book offered me nothing for logistics and I was left to figure it out on my own.

Overall I didn't really use this book much after the initially planning phase and didn't even bother bringing it with me on vacation since I had purchased Rick Steves' Istanbul for my three days in the capitol and then ended up booking a private tour of Ephesus and the surrounding areas.

Eyewitness: Turkey had a small section up front that focused on Istanbul, which was sufficient and provided a list of the usual historical sites, a picture guided tour of the Hagia Sofia and Topkapi palace as well as a list of accommodations. Some of the other sections, like Ankara, had more details of what to see and do but nothing about getting there and not a lot about the history.

I really can't hate on Eyewitness: Turkey too much though, because I knew what I was getting when I ordered it and that's exactly what I got. I actually think this was one of the more in-depth Eyewitness books, but after getting the Rick Steves' Istanbul I didn't even touch it.

This book is best suited to early vacation planning, and if you're taking a guided tour of Turkey as a whole. This is not for those who are looking for the how-to's of getting around and other concerns of "do-it-yourself" travelers.

Adding Mass in the Off-Season

For a natural bodybuilder, the pre-contest is the roughest phase of all of the year's bodybuilding.  Your main goal is to lose body fat.  But the secondary goal - and perhaps the more important goal - is to maintain most of your muscle mass while dieting down.  We've all heard horror stories of the bodybuilders who cruise through the off-season at a fairly solid 250, but end up a very scrawny 198 when the show day rolls around.  They simply over-diet, or allow catabolism to eat up too much of their muscle.  Of course every effort is made to ensure this doesn't happen.  And one of the best ways you go do this is to have a pretty decent amount of muscle on your frame to start with.  This involves adding a decent amount of mass in the off-season.  Let's examine some ways to do that!

Eat more

In the off-season, if you wish to add lean muscle mass, you simply have to be eating more calories.  If you look the same as you did the previous off-season, it's because you're not eating enough.  Bump your daily caloric intake up by 500 to 750 calories, and notice the difference.  Remember that it's okay to wear a little extra body fat in the off-season, as long as you never grow past 20%.

Bump up the protein

Most guys you see in the gym - yes, most naturals - eat a maximum of 1 grams of protein per 1 pound of bodyweight.  It is way beyond what the Food & Drug Administration requires, and it's a 'comfortable' level.  Most bodybuilders have no problem downing 3 protein shakes per day and three meals with good protein sources.  However, if you want to stop looking like a 200-pound man eating 200 grams of protein, and if you want to truly give the muscles every possible opportunity to grow, you're going to need to increase your protein.  You'll urinate away anything you don't need, but you sure won't miss out on any potential growth!

Increase your fat

This doesn't mean you should spend your day consuming unhealthy fast food.  But it does mean you should allow yourself to consume more healthy fats from sources like beef, eggs, and natural peanut butter.  Also, 2-3 fish oil caplets should be taken with each of your big meals.  Fat is required for muscle growth!

Settle down

One of the biggest mistakes young bodybuilders do in the course of making gains is to be too active in their daily lives.  They work one or two jobs, head to class, participate in some pickup basketball, go dancing at the club, then play some Wii when they get home.  While these activities are fun and should not be halted if you truly enjoy them, you should be aware of the fact that you are limiting your gains by being so physically active.  Re-evaluate your goals and determine if the 90 minutes of pleasure you derive from playing pickup basketball is worth more to you than the extra 3 to 5 pounds of muscle it is preventing you from gaining.  Bodybuilding allows you to gain more pleasure form you life - but sometime being too active with pleasures of live can limit your bodybuilding success!

The Advantages of Building Green

If you are considering building a new house, consider the savings that you'll gain from building a green house. Once you've purchased the Baton Rouge real estate on which you've chose to build your home, ask your builder about what he or she can do to make your home more energy efficient and green. Not only does it help the environment, it will help your pocket book as well!

Insulation is your number one easiest change that has the largest impact in reducing the energy your home takes to run it. A well insulated home will pay for itself over and over again through the hot summer and cold winter months. You'll see a huge reduction in your energy bills.

The size of your house makes a difference as well. Consider your plans for a home carefully, and decide how much space you really need. Obviously, the larger the home, the more energy it will take to keep it running. You can reduce your costs by building a slightly smaller home.

Windows let plenty of energy escape the home. When it comes to choosing windows for your new home, choose energy efficient windows that not only keep the elements out, but actually work to keep your home protected as well. Low-emission glass actually reflects heat and cold away from the house respectively, which means lower energy costs for you.

A green home is a great way to save money. You won't just be doing your part for the earth, but you'll be saving money every month.

Travel Tips - Packing Light For A Carefree Trip

Travel tips in travel books and on travel websites often advise travelers to "pack light." In my experience, these sources of travel information don't go far enough. If you're a budget traveler you're unlikely to be relying on hotel porters, taxi drivers, or other people paid to drag your luggage around. You're more likely to be dragging it yourself - through airports, through subway systems, on and off of buses and airport shuttles, and through city streets.

It cannot be overstated that carrying too much weight around can be the difference between a fantastic, exhilarating travel experience and an exhausting one that you can't wait to end. If your luggage is heavy, you're mind will be more on the thought that you can't bear to drag your luggage down one more street, than it will be on the sights and sounds of that exotic locale. My years of traveling around Europe, primarily by plane, train, bus, subway system and on foot, have taught me several things. The lighter your luggage, the lighter your heart.

Traveling light does not mean hoisting traditional suitcases. The suitcases themselves add extra weight, and suitcases are difficult to carry. I find that holding a large object by its handle, its weight hanging down off the end of my arm is the fastest route to a shoulder and backache. Traveling light also does not mean pulling a suitcase that has tiny wheels on the bottom. Spend a few minutes watching tourists attempting to keep control of that type of unstable suitcase, as they wobble and tip to one side, and you'll see what I mean.

Traveling light does not mean carrying an over sized, bursting-at-the-seams backpack, either. Unless you plan to do some serious wilderness hiking and camping in the rough, where you'll have zero access to shops, forget the overloaded backpack. Why lug a heavy backpack through the wilds of London when there are shops on every corner, where you can forage for everything you need?

So, what should savvy budget travelers carry, and how should they carry it? My advice is that you carry one small day-pack style backpack. It can be done, if you think before you pack, and if you make logical decisions as to what you truly can and can't live without, and what you absolutely must transport to your destination versus what you can easily pick up once you arrive.

For example, if you regularly use a prescription medication, obviously you'll need to carry an adequate supply with you. Carry a spare as well, and keep it on you, so that you needn't panic if your pack gets nabbed by a thief. Be sure to also carry the prescription itself, so that you can prove that you're really transporting a prescription medicine, if you're stopped by customs or security personnel. It's even better if you have a prescription that carries not only the commercial name of the medicine, but also its chemical name, in case you need to show it to a pharmacist, doctor, or customs authority, in a country where your own language isn't spoken.

If you're traveling to a hot, tropical location, by all means carry a bottle of sunscreen - but buy a bottle that contains the amount you expect to need for the duration of the trip. Don't burden yourself with a jumbo size container, two thirds of which will be still be with you on the return trip. As a rule of thumb for any type of toiletries, carry (or buy upon arrival) small tubes, bottles and boxes containing just enough for the trip. Don't drag around weight that you'll ultimately drag back home with you, or you'll only end up with a bottle of sunscreen that can boast to its neighbors on the medicine cabinet shelf that it's been to Tahiti.

If two people are traveling together, whether they're part of one family or they're friends sharing the adventure of a lifetime, take only one set of toiletries between you. Carry separate toothbrushes, of course, but pack just one of items such as deodorant and soap and then share them. Half of your toiletry weight will have been eliminated simply by not both carrying duplicate types of items and, believe me, objects like these really contribute to the bulk and weight of your luggage.

Ask yourself if you can live without extras such as cosmetics, perfume and jewelry. Their combined mass and weight can quickly add up. Try a more natural look during your trip. It will save you daily time, as well as saving you daily strain on your arm and back muscles. As an added bonus, the less stylish and flashy you look, the less likely you'll be to be the target of a mugger.

Forget about electrical appliances and electronic gadgets. You can live without a hairdryer or electric shaver and save not only the weight of these appliances, but also the additional burden of adapters to suit overseas outlets and electrical currents. Carry, instead, a lightweight compact plastic razor, or just let your beard grow. You may later decide that it suits you and decide to keep it ! If you plan to fly, don't bother packing razor blades or manicure scissors. They are not allowed on planes anymore, anyway, so should be bought locally, if needed, and then properly disposed of before you fly home. I always find it practical to carry a little sewing kit for emergency repairs, but that doesn't mean an entire kit full of colored spools of thread. It means a single needle plus one little spool of pale thread and one of dark thread together in a little bag.

Keep clothing to an absolute minimum. Stick to one basic outfit that's comfortable, casual, and not easily wrinkled. Supplement it with a couple of extra lightweight tops and a couple of pairs of socks and underwear that can be repeatedly washed out in hotel rooms. A single sweater or sweatshirt for cool evenings and a thin plastic rain poncho and you should be set.

By sticking to one small backpack per person there are additional advantages that you'll soon appreciate. You need never check bags at the airport and risk having them lost, you don't need to endlessly load and unload airport or train station trolleys and count your bags to be sure that none have gone astray, plus everything is close at hand and easily accessible. By carrying just one backpack each, you'll also look less like affluent tourists, and thus you'll be less likely to be targeted by a pickpocket or purse snatcher as you move about city streets and in subway systems. Travel light and you can put less of a burden on your muscles, leaving you with more energy and a bigger appetite to truly experience the marvelous places that you are visiting. Travel light and you'll be more likely to travel happy.


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